Seven years ago, I embarked on a journey that I never anticipated would become such a significant part of my life: I became a bonus mom. As a woman who never had children of her own, stepping into the role of a parental figure to my partner's kids was both exhilarating and daunting. Little did I know it would be one of the most rewarding experiences ever.

Being a bonus mom is like being handed a beautifully wrapped package filled with surprises, challenges, and, most importantly, love. From navigating the intricacies of co-parenting to creating a home filled with laughter and warmth, every moment has been a lesson in patience, resilience, and unconditional love.

As a black woman, I bring a unique perspective to the household, one shaped by my culture, experiences, and heritage. In a world where representation matters, being a bonus mom allows me to not only nurture and support but also to celebrate and uplift. It's about instilling a sense of pride and identity in the children I've come to love as my own, reminding them of the richness of their mixed heritage and the boundless possibilities that lie ahead.